I really just recognized the magnitude of this move. I changed my career path, move to another part of the world, dragged another person with me, and all these were done diving in head first. I left no time for acclimation and went straight to work the next day I arrived. What was I thinking?
Then, there is the actual cultural shock that now I have to force myself to absorb. For the past years, I came to Shanghai as a visitor. I was in taxis, in hotels, and only here for a brief time. This time, I am sitting in an office, working on real projects, and handling the languages and cultural changes.
It certainly reminded me of the 3 months in Tianjin in 2009. It was not fun at first, but I learned to make do. It didn't turn out so bad. I must have a mental note to remind myself.
Shanghai has changed even in the short time since I visited last. Again, it may well be the different perception and perspective between a visitor and a resident. Things are more expensive. Traffic is a lot worst. People seem rude. The worst of all is the hundreds of pimps on the street asking foreigners if we want young ladies. This is a bit of a disgrace. This situation was tamer before. Again, it may just be me being oblivious during my visits in the past.
It is also interesting to hear Jim's descriptions of his daily exploration. I need to set him up with a blog this weekend so that he can share with his people. He is seeing SH very differently. His perspectives are not coming from behind the window of a town car, meals at the fanciest restaurants all day, or accompanied by a translator. He walks during the day. He cannot find a person who can speak some English to him. He doesn't have the crew and ground support that Anthony Bordain has for his show. It is interesting to hear him maneuvering the crazy and rude traffic, how he tried to look for a back brush in the neighborhood, and seeing some delicious food and can't order at a little hole in the wall because of the language barrier.
This weekend, we are looking for a permanent place. Wish us luck.
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